An Insider's Look at Mormon Culture

The Selfish Generation

Beginning with the post WWII baby boomers, the media has labeled succeeding generations—including Generation X, the Millennials, and now the Connected Generation. From what I’m seeing, the current generation of retirees deserves a name of our own—the Selfish Generation.

The Selfish Generation (SG) is distinguished by elderly people who fervently believe age should not deter them from living as they have always lived. The fact that they no longer need and no longer have the energy or income to keep up their family home does not suggest to these people that they should move to a condo, an apartment, or retirement community or assisted living facility.

SG members are content to let family, friends, and church members shoulder the burdens of snow shoveling, yard care, housework, meal preparation, transportation, and house repairs for them. In older Utah neighborhoods, the ratio of those needing care to those able to provide care is high enough to constitute serious problems. Even the youngest, most generous people have limits to the time and energy they can devote to helping neighbors.

SG members refuse to give up driving just because of physical impairment. A Salt Lake City gentleman in his ‘90s with impaired vision recently totaled his car and incurred a huge fine after rear-ending a car waiting for a stoplight. Unfortunately, the driver did not lose his license.  He can’t afford to replace his car, but can get around SLC on the bus. Still, he wants to rent a car to drive to his vacation home in Southern Utah. Since he’s driven there so many times in the past, he figures he’ll be okay to drive there alone. I only hope he doesn’t find a rental agency willing to risk lending him a car.

Two years ago, I attended several meetings in Utah where legislators wrestled with the problem of funding state retirees from a retirement fund whacked by the stock market drop. Retirees were adamant that their benefits not be touched. Retired teachers were willing to take money from school budgets rather than cut their retirement checks. They finally backed a plan leaving current retirees’ and employees’ benefits intact, but dropping new employees from the guaranteed retirement program—offering them only 401K donations instead.  I don’t know about you, but I’d hate to think I had to live on my 401K after the 2009 crash.

Adult guppies that eat their young are still productive members of their group—considering that the function of adult guppies is to reproduce. Nature apparently condones cannibalizing a few infant guppies so the main group can survive. It’s harder to forgive nonworking, non-productive Selfish Generation members who insist their Social Security and Medicare benefits not be part of any needed budget cuts. SG members generally agree to cuts in benefits for everyone under the age of 55. In essence, they are asking their children and grandchildren to fund their benefits with no hope of collecting equivalent benefits for their own retirement.

Evolution promotes survival of the fittest. The Selfish Generation is calling for survival of the oldest.

Comments on: "The Selfish Generation" (6)

  1. Dorothy J.D. Guinn said:

    It is for this very reason that my husband and I do not sign up for AARP. By signing up with them we automatically are included in their lobbying power even if we disagree with what is being considered as important and needed. I first realized this when I was a member of a home school group (HSLDA) and legislation was presented in the late 1990’s that had the backing of the powerful AARP that contained in its scope the ability to severely cripple the home school movement. Their needs over the needs of the children? Yes, vehemently, yes.

    Still, in all fairness, the SG is the BabyBoomer generation all grown up–and they were carefully trained to be this way by their own parents who had suffered and struggled though the Depression and the World Wars–and wanted something better for their children. It is not surprising that all of this time later they still believe what they had been taught: that they deserve something better than what everyone else is getting. In fact, it is their birthright. I find it hilarious that these same people are so upset about the entitlement generations that have followed in their footsteps.

  2. Dorothy J.D. Guinn said:

    lol! I’m sure there is some form of repentance you can tap 🙂

  3. Ouch!

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